Nov 23, 2020
I can do a magic trick — I can log in to a social media account and make all of my time disappear! I know, it sounds impossible that one or two or even three whole hours could simply vanish while I’m scrolling past photos of lattes and incendiary political tweets, but… it’s true! Can you relate? Are you a magician, too?
Nov 21, 2020
I’m not going to say anything new here, or anything that you haven’t felt more or less intensely for yourself. But I miss going out for a really good cup of coffee.
Nov 20, 2020
I’ve been exhausted and burned out to the point of tears lately, and have had several friends gently suggest that it’s time to not only start taking weekends off, but to possibly schedule off an ENTIRE WEEK.
Nov 16, 2020
For one writer, success means having fun writing with a good cup of coffee on Saturday mornings. For another, it means selling 10,000 copies of their debut novel. For yet another, it means inking a movie or TV deal. For yet another, it means the quiet approval of just...
Nov 9, 2020
Wow. Last week was… A WEEK. Amidst the election anxiety, crises with friends, bad news about a project, and a trip to the ER, I found myself thinking, “But… I was doing everything right!” Life comes at us fast and hits us hard sometimes — even (and, it feels,...
Nov 2, 2020
If you’re anything like me, you have a lot of inboxes. You know, those places — physical or digital — where things you need to deal with are deposited. And collect. And grow. You probably have a work or school inbox — projects to wrangle or tasks to complete, phone...
Oct 26, 2020
Last week, we talked about how the act of writing for ourselves isn’t selfish. This week, I really want to ask you, just to make sure — is what you’re creating really for you? Some of us (myself included, at one point in time) are only writing or creating because we...
Oct 26, 2020
The idea that writing and creating is (or should be) fun and easy all the time, or that if you find it difficult then it’s not somehow “for” you, is incredibly toxic.
Oct 19, 2020
Where did we get the idea of “selfish”? Perhaps like you, I first understood the concept of “selfish” as a child, when it was used to label myself or other children when we were acting in a way that deprived someone else of food, toys, crayons, etc. “Sharing is...
Oct 12, 2020
Life comes with a tall order of “should”s. We “should” eat more vegetables, exercise every day, take care of our families and friends, volunteer in our communities, read that book, attend that PTA meeting, see that movie, get more sleep, pick up groceries, be present...
Oct 5, 2020
Years ago, I attended a community empowerment event for women, where the overall message was, “Say yes to absolutely every opportunity. Shonda Rhimes’ book Year Of Yes had just come out, and it was a popular, liberating, and — for many people, especially women who had...
Sep 28, 2020
Help Support This Podcast! >> How does your schedule currently make you feel? Weary? Overwhelmed? Trapped? Suffocated? Depressed? As Jen Carrington asks so succinctly, “Is your schedule a free-for-all that accommodates everyone else’s needs — but not your own?...
Sep 21, 2020
Help Support This Podcast! >> We’re all ridiculously busy, trying to work and find time to write, exercising, picking up the kids from school (or teaching them at home), making dinner, reading, taking online classes, spending quality time with our loved ones and...
Sep 14, 2020
Help Support This Podcast! >> “What is your most prized possession?” Years ago, when I was a teenager in my church’s youth group, our pastor asked us this question, in what (I think) was a lesson on the ultimate emptiness of materialism. As an outwardly...
Sep 7, 2020
Help Support This Podcast! >> I crave a lot of things in life — achievement, recognition, financial freedom, healthy relationships, peace and quiet, chocolate. But I’ve never craved work/life balance (or, as we discussed in the previous email, work/life/passion...
Aug 31, 2020
Help Support This Podcast! >> Back in 2014, I was thinking of starting a podcast.The only thing was, I was already working 40+ hours a week at a demanding job, volunteering in my community, enrolled in a women’s leadership program, and trying to be present for...
Aug 25, 2020
Creativity Myth #10: Failure is bad. Here’s why it’s a myth!
Aug 20, 2020
How much money do I make by podcasting? There are a lot of ways to make money podcasting and a lot of ways to talk about it — notably, direct vs. indirect podcast income.
Aug 18, 2020
Creativity Myth #9: You need to create a flawless masterpiece.
Aug 17, 2020
I thought I was immune, hiding here in my little office in South Dakota; I thought I was exempt somehow, that “I should be so much farther ahead” with all the “extra free time” the pandemic and quarantine have afforded us. I was wrong.
Aug 11, 2020
Creativity Myth #8: I don’t have the time or energy to be creative.
Aug 4, 2020
Creativity Myth #7: Society doesn’t want what I’m creating.
Jul 28, 2020
Creativity Myth #6: It’s possible to “run out of” creativity, so be careful with what you have.
Jul 21, 2020
Creativity Myth #5: You don’t have to be 100% original to be creative.
Jul 20, 2020
Have you ever found yourself… searching for distractions? I know, it sounds like…
Jul 17, 2020
Even though I know in the depths of my heart that this is the work I am meant to do, and that I am living out my true purpose when I am writing and creating… I still struggle to prioritize it.
Jul 16, 2020
A lot of us get frustrated when we jump into something and we’re not good at it right away. For me, this is never more evident than when I go bowling...
Jul 14, 2020
Creativity Myth #4: You need to live in a big city or work at a company with a slide to be creative.
Jul 13, 2020
Here’s the thing about fear. It’s not something that you one day decide to banish, and then you never have to deal with it again. Fear is an instinct…
Jul 11, 2020
I just counted, and there are no fewer than 26 plants right here in my 8×8′ office. Orchids, pothos, air plants, cacti, Swedish ivy, aloe… I love them all so much. But more than that, I need them.
Jul 10, 2020
How are you with sticking to things? It’s worth asking: what habits are WORTH building? What changes do we ACTUALLY WANT to make?
Jul 9, 2020
When you realize that you only have ONE LIFE to live… how does that make you feel? How does it affect your creativity?
Jul 7, 2020
Creativity Myth #3: “You’re either born creative, or you’re not.” Here’s exactly why this statement is a terrible and dangerous lie.
Jun 30, 2020
Creative Myth #2: You need special knowledge or a degree to create.
Jun 23, 2020
Creativity Myth #1: Imagination is just for children. Here’s why that is a complete load of garbage, and why imagination is essential to our lives as adults.
Jun 16, 2020
Exciting news — you now have the opportunity to work with me one-on-one! Whether you’d like creative or strategic coaching or consulting…
Jun 15, 2020
People may scoff at you for having dreams, but having (and holding onto) those dreams is crucial to living a life of meaning and influence.
Jun 12, 2020
I’ve been working on a brand-new email series for you! It’s called “Dear Creators” and…
Jun 8, 2020
Podcasting is booming! But is NOW really the best time to start one? Here are 3 major considerations for making your decision.
May 25, 2020
It’s so easy for me to imagine my life slipping away with each tick of the clock — and it’s so easy for that to turn into fear, anxiety, and really limited thinking…
May 23, 2020
One of the most frequent questions I get asked as a podcast coach & teacher is, “How long should a podcast be, ideally?” Here’s what I tell them.
May 20, 2020
“In life, finding a voice is speaking and living the truth.” — John Grisham. I get a lot of questions from both podcasters and writers about how to discover their own unique voice. Most don’t know where to begin…
May 19, 2020
Terrible news, everyone — I’m evil! Actually, I got sorted into the Slytherin house by the official Harry Potter website, and I’m afraid it comes with some CONNOTATIONS.
May 18, 2020
“Yesterday’s home runs don’t win today’s games.” — Babe Ruth. It can be SO FRUSTRATING to learn an important lesson or find a particular slice of success… and then to wake up the next day with a clean slate and realize you have to do it ALL OVER AGAIN.
May 16, 2020
We spend a lot of our time focused on solutions and solving problems. And that makes sense. We have a LOT of problems to solve as a society (like… a LOT), and providing solutions is a really good way to improve our quality of life, as well as lessen pain and suffering. But something we don’t talk about enough is…
May 15, 2020
Who Are You Becoming? We’ve talked a little bit in a previous post about investing in yourself financially. But another huge key to growth and leveling up is evaluating who you’re spending most of your time with. The people we spend time with shape...
May 14, 2020
“If there is no struggle, there is no progress.” — Frederick Douglass. Podcasting is hard. Writing is hard. Gardening is hard. Raising children is hard. Anything worth doing…
May 13, 2020
For years, investing in myself was unthinkable. I grew up poor, and I had stayed poor. Money was for buying off-brand food and secondhand clothing, tithing to church, and paying rent (and later mortgage), car payments, and student loan debt…
May 12, 2020
I don’t always follow my own advice. Heck, I don’t USUALLY follow my own advice. Here’s why I think that might be — and maybe it’s true for you, too.
May 11, 2020
Welcome to my #1 piece of podcasting advice. When in doubt… DO IT ANYWAY. Here’s why.